A Punny and Pretty Way to Ask Your Girls to Be Bridesmaids

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Can someone please tell me when all of this wedding mania became such “thing”? I’ve no doubt that TLC and Pinterest had a lot to do with it, but I was really surprised to see how many parties now need to be thrown (an engagement party, a bridal shower, bachelorette/bachelor parties, a rehearsal dinner AND the wedding reception itself!), and how many gifts need to exchange hands before two people can be joined in marriage. Of course, I’m using the word “need” very loosely here, and none of these things are at all necessary to tie the knot. A truly alternative bride might be able to shut out all of the noise and omit all of these superfluous bits and baubles (a path I did consider), but after having been given memorable “Will you be my bridesmaid?” gifts from many of my best girlfriends, I decided it was only fitting to reciprocate.

But what exactly is the best way to ask your closest girls to join you at the alter on your big day? In the past, I’ve had the honor of receiving a lovely personalized bottle of wine (very eco-friendly when bestowed upon a lush like myself) and was also delighted to open up an adorable ring pop bridesmaids proposal box (a Pinterest favorite). But when it came time for me to pop the question myself, I was baffled.

After much introspection, I decided that I wanted to ask my bridesmaids for their hands in a way that was both punny and practical. The following is what I finally came up with. Warning: extreme corniness ahead.

bridesmaids, ask your bridesmaids, diy wedding, wedding diy ideas, bridesmaids gift, gifts for bridesmaidsEach box was personalized with a friend’s name using adhesive glitter paper and puffy paints.

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While I deeply regretted my decision to use so much glitter after learning about ShipGlittertoYourEnemies.com, I think the sparkly exclamation point tags were innocuous enough, right?

When your bridesmaids open up their boxes, they’ll find four layers consisting of…

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A lip balm with a cheeky note..

bridesmaids, ask your bridesmaids, diy wedding, wedding diy ideas, bridesmaids gift, gifts for bridesmaids
Some nail polish…

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A lemon zester…

bridesmaids, ask your bridesmaids, diy wedding, wedding diy ideas, bridesmaids gift, gifts for bridesmaidsAnd finally, at the bottom of the box, your happy query!

How are you planning to ask your best friends to be your bridesmaids? I’d love to hear your ideas!

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